Have You Ever?

Have you ever had a total stranger come into your life and just feel that there is a bond between you two? It's like some random person that you don't even know can walk into your life and there is a connection there! On so many different levels there is an understanding, but it's almost like you dont even know what the understanding is, you just know it's there. I have watched a person walk into my
life and felt like there is a great bond there but it's barely even recognized. It could be possible that there is an understanding and the bond is being recognized by each individual in their own set of eyes, but neither individual has made it clear to the other. If the understanding is there and it is known to both individuals then why not make it clear and known to the other? Is it because you don't want to take the chance on losing a person that actually means something in your life? I think it is possible. But how many opportunities to you get in life to have a wonderful person in your life and you don't want to tell the other individual because you don't want to lose them! After spending time and getting to know this person it's like you have became to know the individual so much more and the understanding has just gotten deeper. So if you ever have this chance in life don't hurt yourself by regretting what you didn't do. Let your feelings be known, and remember no one said life would be easy they just said it would be worth it! So take every opportunity you have!

Why Can't You See It?

Stepmothers. Speaking in experience, not saying that I have anything against them, but you have to know where you stand with a child. Stepmothers try so hard to be more to a child then what the child wants them to be. Accepting a step parent in the family could be a hard thing to do, and it makes things even harder when you have a stepmother that stands in the way of the relationship between you and your father. I see it this way, the relationship between a father and his child should not be thrown down the drain because the stepmother does not like the child. You are a grown woman and should not have any type of hate or dislike towards a child. What has this child ever done to you? In most cases nothing. You just don’t want to accept the fact that you are married to a man that has children by another woman than yourself. You should think about those things before you marry a man with children. Apparently the children were there before you or you wouldn’t be called a stepmother. So before you make the choice of marrying a man with children you should first learn to accept all the packages he might come with. Is it that serious to have a child’s relationship ruined with their father all because you want the spotlight?

Wish to Be A “Daddy’s Little Girl”

Have you ever had a person in your life that means so much to you deep down inside, but it’s like you mean nothing at all to them? It’s like the things that should have a place in your heart and can’t be removed are things that don’t even have a place in your heart and can be removed so easy. It kind of seems as if you can go all day, week, month, or yearlong and not think about a person, but as soon as you see them or someone brings their name up, memories of that person come racing back. There could be the shortest stream of memories in your head about this person, but it’s like you have been around and seen this person every day and spent every minute with them. I used to dream about being right there under your arms, but it was like my dreams never came true. When my dreams did come true they weren’t dreams they were nightmares haunting me for no reason. In every dream that I ever dreamt about you, there was always an ending that made me walk away with more tears than a child could cry, but at the end of the day I realized that there were so many other dreams that I had and how I was waiting for them to come true. Seeing the face of you now doesn’t make me bitter or cynical about anything, it just reminds me of how everything that you missed out on in my life was your fault. If you think you can rewind the film and replay it, you’re wrong. I’m moving forward and pushing on to the great person you have made me to be, not remembering all the bad but only the good. Not thinking about how much I want you in my life, but how much I don’t need you in my life, but wish I had you there just for the support. There just comes a point in life when you have to give up on all the stupid things that come your way, and only worry about the things that make you happy. After this I can say how I was never a “Daddy’s Girl,” because I never was. After all the hoping and wishing that things would get better, they never did so now it’s time to move on and forget about all the things that could pull you back in life.  Always remember, you can’t make someone be in your life and they don’t want to be.

English 1020: This Thing Called Life

English 1020: This Thing Called Life: "No one said that life would be easy; they just said it would be worth it. One thing i have learned in life is that what anyone else thinks d..."

This Thing Called Life

No one said that life would be easy; they just said it would be worth it. One thing i have learned in life is that what anyone else thinks doesn’t matter. What people think of you, your family, or your friends is not something to care about.  Letting a personal opinion get to you doesn’t matter because they think everything is a fact in their opinion. Sure everyone has their own way of saying what they want to say and how they want to say it, but that doesn’t mean you have to agree with what they say. Those who matter don’t mind, and those who mind don’t matter. Life is a game with no instructions. No one tells you how to live your life day by day because you control what happens in your life. If you find yourself in a hole and can’t get out, you can’t just give up you having to keep fighting for your goal. Life is full of obstacles, but you just have to learn how to be able to fight past those smalls speed bumps that might slow you down. Life is full of hidden adventures and you just have to find the correct path to get on and be able to stay on that path when you set your mind to it. Tomorrow is not promised so live as if you will die tomorrow and dream as if you will live forever, and be ready for and side punches that this thing called life might throw at you.

I Love My Momma But...

I love my momma but, every time my mother and i have a task to do, it could be the simplest task, but it is always so complicated for us to do. Tasks as simple as us moving a chair from one side of the room to the other is beyond complicated for us. As soon as we begin to move something we start laughing and either drop something or end up falling. I'm not so sure if it is just because we are goofy or if it is because we laugh at everything. I think it is more along the lines of both. When we start moving something it takes us at least thirty minutes to move it no matter where we are moving it to. We start by picking something up and as soon as it comes off the ground we just look at each other dead in the face and start laughing. It seems like that would be the craziest thing to happen when you are moving something and trying to stay focused, but when i move something with my mother thats how it happens. No matter where we are, what we are moving, or who we are moving it for we will always laugh while trying to get the job done. We laugh at every stupid thing there is to laugh about. So many dumb things happen when we are around each other and i think they are meant to happen just so we can get a good laugh about something.